Learn Emotional Attraction & Divine Feminine Energy to Create Safe, Secure Love
Hi, I’m Alex — a Relationship & Self-Trust Coach for women ready to experience love that feels safe, steady, and true.
Imagine waking up each day in a relationship where you feel deeply seen, supported, and at ease — where love isn’t something you chase, but something you naturally allow.
What if connection didn’t have to come at the cost of your boundaries, your truth, or your nervous system?
What if love could feel like coming home — to yourself, and to someone who truly meets you?
I help women who have done the work in so many areas of life — but still feel stuck in love — shift old patterns, rebuild inner safety, and open to a relationship that matches their depth.
And yes, it starts with reaching out to someone who’s walked the path and knows what it takes to love differently.
If you’re ready for that next chapter — I’m here to guide you.
Are You Ready to Rewrite Your Love Story?
You’re not asking for too much — you’re asking to feel emotionally safe, seen, and loved.
And that’s a healthy, human thing to want.
Whether you’re dating or in a relationship, it can be confusing when love doesn’t feel quite like it’s supposed to.
You’re doing your part. You’re self-aware. You’re trying.
But something still feels off.
Maybe you're dating and tired of surface-level conversations, mixed signals, or promising connections that just… fizzle.
Or maybe you're partnered — and even though things look fine from the outside, you feel emotionally disconnected.
It’s like the relationship works in the practical sense, but something’s missing beneath the surface.
And in quiet moments, you wonder:
Is this what love is supposed to feel like?
Why does emotional closeness feel so hard to reach?
Am I expecting too much?
You’re not.
What you want — steady connection, emotional honesty, mutual care — is not too much.
It’s just that some part of you may have learned to settle for less, or to overcompensate to make things work.
At Alex Bella Coaching, we help you gently explore the emotional patterns that shape your experience of love:
Why you’re drawn to unavailable partners.
Why you downplay your needs.
Why closeness can feel both safe and scary at the same time.
This isn’t about blaming yourself or diagnosing your past.
It’s about bringing warmth, understanding, and insight to what’s been playing out —
so you can create a new story in love, from a grounded and emotionally safe place.
Whether you’re dating, healing from past relationships, or working to deepen the one you’re in…
you deserve connection that feels steady, mutual, and real.
This is where I come in.
I help self-aware, emotionally intelligent women who are tired of second-guessing themselves in love. Women who crave clarity, connection, and a relationship that feels secure — without losing themselves to get it.
Through coaching, we uncover the unconscious patterns that keep you stuck, rebuild self-trust, and shift your experience of dating from anxiety and overthinking… to calm, clear, and embodied.
Love doesn’t have to feel like a guessing game.
You deserve a connection that grows with you — one that feels mutual, meaningful, and real.
Alex Bella Coaching can give you the solutions if:
You’re not sure why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable or inconsistent partners—even though your heart is open and your intentions are clear.
You’re craving a love that feels like home—romantic, cherishing, emotionally present—but instead, you find yourself over giving, waiting, or questioning if it's too much to ask for.
Things often start great, but then shift into emotional distance, conflict, or confusion. You’re left wondering, why does this keep happening?
You long to be deeply heard and emotionally met—but instead feel like you're always reaching, explaining, or settling for less than your heart needs.
You sense that you’re missing red flags or overriding your intuition, even though you're smart, self-aware, and doing the work.
Dating apps leave you drained—you’re open to love, but keep matching with partners who aren’t ready to show up fully.
You’re in a relationship or marriage, but feeling emotionally alone—like your partner is always elsewhere, with work, the kids, or their own world.
You’re navigating a relationship touched by addiction or emotional unavailability, and it’s quietly eroding the connection you once shared.
You’ve been in a long-term relationship, but now feel the call for more—a soul-aligned partnership, deep commitment, or the path toward family—and you're not sure if you're on the same page.
How I Can Help
I’m the founder of La Coaching Boutique — and the woman behind Alex Bella Coaching, where I support self-aware women in creating emotionally available, soul-nourishing love.
Before Alex Bella Coaching came to life, I spent years offering counselling and coaching through La Coaching Boutique. I worked with women navigating anxiety, self-worth, career transitions, grief, burnout, and perfectionism.
But no matter what they came in with, I kept seeing a deeper thread:
A longing to feel safe, seen, and loved — without having to perform for it.
That insight called me into a more focused path.
One that centered around the heart of what so many women were truly seeking:
Connection that feels mutual, secure, and emotionally real.
And so, Alex Bella Coaching was born — a more personal, soul-led expression of the work I’ve always done, now dedicated to guiding women into relationships that feel aligned, emotionally safe, and deeply fulfilling.
You’ll see the name Alex Bella Coaching across all my offerings and content — but La Coaching Boutique remains the official business and invoicing name. Think of it as the broader container, with Alex Bella as the heart-centered home for my relationship work.
There was a time when everything looked good on the outside — I was capable, accomplished, and seemingly thriving. But inside, I felt uncertain in love. Relationships felt confusing, and I often found myself second-guessing what I needed or if I was asking for too much.
I tried to solve love with logic.
But eventually, I learned:
Love isn’t something you earn.
It’s something you learn to receive — through presence, emotional safety, and deep self-trust.
That shift changed everything.
Today, I work with thoughtful, high-achieving, emotionally intelligent women who are ready to approach love differently — not through over-efforting, but through nervous system awareness, emotional clarity, and inner grounding.
I hold certifications in counselling (ACA Level 2), ICF coaching, RRCT relationship coaching, and am currently training in advanced psychodynamic therapy. My work blends therapeutic insight with intuitive, body-based practices to support deep, lasting transformation.
Whether you're dating, healing, or in a relationship that feels stuck —
I’m here to help you reconnect with yourself, speak your truth, and build love that feels safe to stay in.
My work is trauma-informed, LGBTQIA+ affirming, and warmly welcoming of women from all identities and walks of life.
Credentials & Training:
Bachelor of Counselling — Certified by the Australian Counselling Association (ACA Level 2)
Diploma of Professional Leadership Coaching — Accredited by the International Coaching Federation (ICF) & AIPC
Certified Rori Raye Feminine Energy Coach
Gender Equality & Violence Against Women Training — Banksia Gardens
Meditation & Yin Yoga Teacher Training — Moksha Yoga & Jennifer Crescenzo (120 hrs)
Currently in Training:
Post Graduate Cohort 2 Year Psychodynamic Psychotherapy Program — INSIGHT
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